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You Are Not Waiting For Destiny; Destiny Is Waiting For You

• Andre Flax

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What if destiny isn’t a fixed finish line but a series of doorways you can open on purpose? We take you into a practical, grounded exploration of how identity, assumption, and a redefined “normal” quietly write your future—and how to reclaim authorship right now.

We begin by reframing destiny, building on Neville’s core insight that consciousness is the only reality. From there, we unpack the idea of successive destinies: every breakthrough, lesson, and season becomes the launch pad for the next chapter. You’ll hear why repeating patterns aren’t proof of a fixed fate but a signal of an inner state you can upgrade. We connect the dots between the stories you tell about yourself, the expectations you carry as “normal,” and the results that keep showing up in your career, relationships, and wellbeing.

Then we get tactical. We share five tools to shift from wishing to shaping: listen for the whisper of desire, rewrite your self-story with aligned affirmations, practice assumption by feeling the wish fulfilled, upgrade your default normal, and move as the future you through embodied choices. These aren’t gimmicks. They’re a coherent method for aligning thought, feeling, and action so your outer world reflects your inner stance. Along the way, we highlight real-life moments—like the job you “unexpectedly” landed or the relationship that arrived right on time—to show how quiet inner agreement becomes visible outcomes.

By the end, you’ll have a clear path to move from passive hope to deliberate creation. Instead of waiting for destiny to arrive, you’ll cultivate the identity that calls it forward. 

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Welcome to Transformative Living Radio, where we explore the power of intentional change for personal growth and fulfillment. I'm Andre Flax, your host and certified life and leadership coach. Every one of us reaches a moment where we feel that quiet nudge, that sense that life is calling us higher. Not with fireworks, but with the whisper that says, there's more in you than you're living right now. And here's the truth that most people never hear. Your destiny isn't waiting somewhere out there. It's being shaped right now by the thoughts you entertain and the identity you choose to accept. So in today's episode, we're pulling back the curtain on personal destiny, how it forms, how it shifts, and how you can step into the version of yourself you've always felt was possible. So if you've ever wondered why life moves the way it does, or how to finally direct it towards what you truly desire, this is your moment. Because your destiny isn't written by chance, it's written by the stories you choose to believe about yourself. So grab a pen and a pad, and if you're ready, let's begin. Hello and welcome to another empowering episode of Transformative Living Radio. I'm Andre Flax, your host and certified life and leadership coach. You know, most people talk about destiny like it's a distant appointment on a calendar. Something set in stone long before we were born. But Neville Godd flips that whole idea upside down. He says, Your destiny is that which you must inevitably experience. Now that sounds big, right? But then he adds something even more powerful to that statement. He says, really, it's an infinite number of individual destinies, each of which, when attained, is the starting point for a new destiny. In other words, you're not living one destiny, you're living an unfolding series of them. Every season is a doorway, every realization is a launch pad, every success, every lesson, every moment of awakening becomes the starting point for where you go next. You see, your destiny isn't one path, it's an evolution. And the engine behind the evolution, your consciousness, what you think, what you accept is true, what you believe about yourself and your world. Neville says, quote, consciousness is the only reality, end quote. Meaning that your outer world is the all is only a reflection of what's going on inside of you. So your destiny isn't chasing you, your destiny is expressing you. Your destiny is shaped by the way you see yourself when no one else is watching. This is why some people repeat the same patterns for years. Not because destiny is fixed, but because their consciousness hasn't shifted. Once the inner changes, the outer must follow. Neville writes, quote, You are creating your destiny every moment, whether you know it or not. End quote. Now I want you to let that sink in for a moment. We are creating our destinies every moment, whether we know it or not. Every assumption we hold, every story we repeat in our mind, and every identity we step into is shaping what comes next in our experience. Now, the beautiful part, Neville reminds us, is that much of what is good and wonderful has come into our lives without us even realizing we created it. Yeah, let me say that again. Much of what is good and wonderful has come into our lives without us even realizing we created it. Think about the job you didn't think you were going to land, but somehow you landed it. Or that relationship that showed up right when you needed it. Or maybe the moment of breakthrough that you didn't see coming. You created that. Not through force, but through the quiet inner agreement you made with yourself. And when you begin to understand that you're not just experiencing life, but generating it, you become a sharper observer of your inner world. You start noticing the patterns you've accepted, the beliefs you inherited, the possibilities you've ignored, and the quiet desires you've been pushing aside. This is where life gets exciting because awareness is empowerment. Once you see how destiny is shaped, you can begin to shape it on purpose. Neville states, quote, regardless of the occasional experiences, to the contrary, it's your destiny to rise to higher and higher states of consciousness. I love that statement because it means your growth isn't a gamble, it's your birthright. Even when life feels heavy, even when you face setbacks, even when your past tries to speak louder than your future, there is something in you that refuses to stay the same. Something in you that is always trying to climb. You see, your destiny isn't a fixed outcome. It's an outward movement built into your design. You were created to expand, to grow, to stretch, to manifest more of life's possibilities. You are destined to see more, to become more, to create more. And the more aware you become of your own inner power, the more the world around you will begin to reshape itself to match the person you are becoming. And here's how Neville brings this concept of destiny home. He states, quote, you are destined to reach the point where you realize that through your own desire you can consciously create your successive destinies. End quote. Desire becomes your compass, assumption becomes your paintbrush, your inner world becomes your workshop. Destiny stops being an accident and becomes a choice. This is where conscious creation begins. So let me give you five practical tools to help you discover your true destiny. Tool number one is to listen for the whisper of desire. You see, destiny begins where desire speaks. Not the loud ones, the quiet ones, the ones that feel like home. Ask yourself, what keeps calling me? Even when I ignore it. You see, your destiny, your true destiny, is already trying to introduce itself. Tool number two is rewrite the story you tell about yourself. You see, your identity determines your direction. If you see yourself as limited, you will repeat limited experiences. So take five minutes each day and affirm the identity of the person you're becoming. Here are some affirmations that you could use. Affirmations like, I am worthy of growth, I am capable of more, I am creating my life on purpose. You see, the story you tell about yourself becomes your steering wheel. Tool number three is practice assumption, which is to feel the end before it arrives. Nebulgadar's most famous teaching is assume the feeling of the wish fulfilled. It means to close your eyes and to imagine your desired destiny already real. When you close your eyes, you want to feel it. You want to see it and own it internally. When you do this, your consciousness will move mountains to make it true. Now, tool number four is to notice what you accept as normal. You see, your life always conforms to your inner sense of normal. If struggle feels normal to you, you will continue to struggle. If confidence feels normal, you will rise. If success feels normal, opportunities will meet you halfway. You see, your destiny is built on what you quietly accept. If you shift your normal, you will shift your life. Now, tool number five is to move as the future you. Let me say that again. It's to move or to act as the future you. This is embodiment. Ask yourself this. How would the version of me who already lives my destiny think, move, and decide? Then begin acting from that place. When your actions upgrade, your destiny upgrades with it. Now, as we wrap up this episode, I want you to sit with this thought. You are not waiting for destiny. Destiny has been waiting for you. Waiting for you to awaken, to remember, to choose the story you want your life to tell. Everything you desire, every version of yourself you've glimpsed, every dream that has tugged at your heart, all of it is a part of the infinite chain of destinies unfolding from within you. You're not chasing a future, you're revealing one. Well, that's our show for today. We hope that you found this episode both insightful and inspiring. And if today's episode stirred something inside you, share it with someone who needs a reminder of their own power. And don't forget, you can download my free ebook entitled Standing in Your Own Authority by using the link in today's show notes. Join us each week for practical tips, actionable insights, and inspiring stories to help you transform your life.

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