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Stop Chasing, Start Attracting: The Napoleon Hill Success Secret

• Andre Flax

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Ever noticed how some people walk into a room and instantly change the atmosphere? Before they speak a word, you feel something—either drawn in by their magnetic presence or instinctively pulling back. That invisible force field is what Napoleon Hill called your "aura," and it's broadcasting your internal state to everyone you meet.

Your aura isn't just mystical concept—it's a powerful force determining your success. Throughout this episode, we dive deep into how your energetic broadcast affects everything from job interviews to sales meetings and relationships. Through personal stories and client examples, I share how my own frequency shift transformed my results in corporate sales, and how subtle energy adjustments helped a struggling salesperson overcome their desperation broadcast that was repelling potential clients.

The most powerful insight? Success doesn't come from chasing harder but from aligning deeper. When you operate from worthiness rather than lack, you naturally attract opportunities instead of pushing for them. I offer five practical steps to train your aura daily: morning gratitude resets, emotionally-charged affirmations, success visualization, careful input management, and conscious anchoring before important moments. This isn't occasional work—it's about shifting your baseline frequency through consistent practice. As Napoleon Hill taught, "No one can attract riches to themselves until they first convince their own mind that they are worthy of those riches." Where might you be playing small because you don't believe you deserve more? Transform your energy signature with our five-minute daily practice, and watch how life responds to your new broadcast. Ready to shift your signal and transform your life? Listen now and take the challenge to consciously train your aura this week.

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Welcome to Transformative Living Radio, where we explore the power of intentional change for personal growth and fulfillment. I'm Andre Flax, your host and certified life and leadership coach. Have you ever noticed that some people can walk into a room and instantly change the atmosphere? I mean, before they even open their mouth, you feel something. You either lean in because their presence is so magnetic, or you pull back because something about their energy doesn't sit right. Now that's not coincidental. That's aura. Napoleon Hill, one of the greatest teachers of personal success, said, every person has an aura, an unseen energy that precedes them. It either attracts or repels. So let me ask you, what is your aura saying before you even speak? Is it saying confidence, worthiness, and expectancy? Or is it whispering doubt, fear, and insecurity? In today's episode, we want to explore how to train your inner frequency to attract success. Not by chasing harder, not by forcing outcomes, but by aligning who you are on the inside with what you want on the outside. So if you're ready to stop pushing and start attracting, if you're ready to tune your inner signal to abundance, confidence, and worthiness, then grab a pin and a pad. And if you're ready, let's begin. Hello and welcome back to another empowering episode of Transformative Living Radio. I'm Andre Flax, your host and certified life and leadership coach. Have you ever been in a situation where a person walks into a room and it changes the atmosphere? I mean, before they even open their mouth, you feel something. You either lean in because their presence is so magnetic, or you pull back because something about their energy doesn't sit right with you. Now that was no coincidence. That's what Napoleon Hill called aura. I remember when I first started corporate sales. I thought success came from memorizing my pitch, knowing my product inside out, and hustling harder than everyone else. But during that time I noticed something. Two people could say the same exact words, yet one would win the deal and the other wouldn't. Why? Their aura. Napoleon Hill put it this way. He said, quote, your aura is your broadcast. It speaks louder than your voice. End quote. I remember walking into early interviews with a frequency of insecurity that said, Do I really belong here? Guess what? The interviewers felt that insecurity and I didn't get those jobs. But when I walked in one day owning my own story, the energy shift. My aura got me the role before my resume did. I had a coaching client who was really good at sales, but he found himself consistently losing deals. The energy he emitted was one of desperation. But once we shifted his state and coached him to breathe and ground himself before meetings, he started attracting deals he never thought possible. So let me ask you, what's the signal you're sending before you even speak? As Hill reminds us, the dominating thoughts of our mind give color to our aura. Now we all chase things, we chase promotions, we chase validations, and we chase success. But here's the truth chasing comes from lack. And as Napoleon Hill says, nature abhors a vacuum, but it will not fill a vessel that is already occupied with fear. That's why chasing repels. People feel your desperation. But residence, alignment, that's what attracts. Let me give you an example. Earlier in my sales career, I would walk into sales presentations desperate to close the deal, and those situations wouldn't go well. But when I shifted my aura to, I'm here to serve, I'm here to add value, I'm here to connect, my frequency changed, and suddenly my clients would lean in. Napoleon Hill says it this way quote, when you vibrate with confidence and faith, the right people and the right opportunity are drawn to you without resistance. End quote. Remember, scarcity language broadcasts fear. Abundant language broadcasts confidence. Your words tune your aura. This is why your baseline frequency matters. You see, anyone can feel good after a good motivational video or working out. But the real question is, what's your baseline? What's your everyday frequency? You see, your frequency or aura is not shaped by what you do occasionally, it is shaped by the repeated thoughts you maintain on a habitual basis. So how do we train our aura or our frequency to attract success? Well, the answer to that question is we must condition it daily. Napoleon Hill said, quote, We must train our aura like an athlete trains his body. Your aura is like a muscle. It strengthens with use or weakens with neglect. So let me give you five practical steps that you can take to start training your aura. Step number one is called morning resets. Start the day with gratitude. You see, gratitude raises your frequency faster than anything else. So in the morning, write down three things that you're most grateful for. Now step number two is to affirm with feeling or emotion. What I mean by that is affirmations by themselves are just words. But as Napoleon Hill said, a thought mixed with emotion becomes magnetized. So don't just say affirmations, say them with emotion. Step number three is visualization. Rehearse success in your mind so when it arrives, it feels natural. Step number four is to guard your inputs. The voices you listen to color your aura, so choose wisely the voices you let in. Step number five is to anchor in tough moments. Before big meetings or decisions, pause and ask, What signal do I want to send? This simple reset aligns your aura. Now, this may be the most powerful lesson you get from this episode. And that is, you must believe you deserve success. You see, without a true conviction of worthiness, your aura will sabotage your success or any other positive desire you have. Hill says, no one can attract riches to themselves until they first convince their own mind that they are worthy of those riches. Now that's worth repeating again. No one can attract riches to themselves until they first convince their own mind that they are worthy of those riches. I had a woman come to me for coaching after she landed her dream job. However, she almost lost that job because she told herself, I didn't belong here. Her aura was emitting a sense of insecurity. But when we shifted her inner dialogue to I am worthy and I belong, everything changed. Her boss began to entrust her with more responsibility and she became successful in her role. So let me ask you, where in your life are you playing small because you don't believe you deserve more? That's the leak in your aura. You see, you and I are broadcasting every single day. Your aura is either attracting or repelling. As Napoleon Hill said, quote, you are a magnet and you attract what you are in harmony with. So here's my challenge to you this week. Spend five minutes a day training your aura. That could be journaling, prayer, affirmations, or visualization. Do whatever tunes your frequency and watch what shows up. Watch which doors open and watch how life responds to your broadcast. Because success doesn't come from chasing harder, it comes from aligning deeper. And when you shift your signal, you shift your life. Well, that's our show for today. We hope that you found this episode both insightful and inspiring. Join us each week for practical tips, actionable insights, and inspiring stories to help you transform your life. We hope you can join us.

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